Brenda Benet, born Brenda Ann Nelson in Los Angeles, California, on August 14, 1945, was a classic example of the modern-day Hollywood tragedy. As a television actress with good dramatic scope, she managed to piece together a wide and impressive portfolio of guest shots in a career spanning just over 16 years before taking her life at the age of 36. She spent her childhood and early teenage years feeling awkward and self-conscious because her complexion was darker than those of her siblings. Because of this, she felt that she did not fit in with her family, and often fantasized about being adopted. Brenda attended UCLA for a brief time, majoring in languages. In 1962 she entered show business; her breakthrough role came in 1964 when she was selected to play the part of Jill McComb in _"The Young Marrieds" and moved in with him in 1969, and they married in 1971. By the late '70s, however, they were divorced. Brenda retired from the business in the mid-'70s to raise a family, and in late 1974 she gave birth to a boy, Christopher Sean Bixby. Tragically, Christopher died in 1981 during a winter ski vacation in California. It was believed that this and her divorce from Bixby were the events which caused Brenda's life to spin out of control. On April 7, 1982, Brenda went into the bathroom of her West Los Angeles home, lit and arranged some candles in a circle on the floor and lay down. She then placed a Colt .38-cal. revolver into her mouth and pulled the trigger. She died instantly.
Committed suicide after the death of her only child, which completely devastated her.
Brenda had always wanted to be a performer and took dance lessons at an early age. Her mother paid for these lessons by taking jobs cleaning and sewing.
She played bouffant-brunette beauties for most of her nice girl career, but is best known for her portrayal of villainess Lee Dumonde on the daytime soap, "Days of Our Lives" . She was on the show for three years until her suicide.
She had one child with then-husband Bill Bixby , named Christopher, born in 1974. In 1981, shortly after her breakup with Bixby, she and actor Don Edmonds took Christopher on a winter vacation to Mammoth Lakes, California, when Christopher developed a sudden, severe illness. The child was rushed to the hospital, where hospital personnel attempted to treat him. When doctors tried to insert a breathing tube down his throat, he suddenly went into cardiac arrest and died a short time later.
Spoke French, Italian and Greek.
Ex-sister-in-law of Patty Petersen.
After divorcing Bill Bixby, Benet reunited with former girlfriend Tammy Bruce, conservative pundit and openly gay radio talk show host.. Benet had been distraught over the death of her and Bixbys six-year-old son, who had recently died from a sudden throat infection. On April 7, 1982, two weeks after Bruce and Benet again parted ways, Bruce showed up for a planned lunch with Benet at the home they previously shared in Mandeville Canyon in west Los Angeles. She found the bathroom door locked. Police came and broke down the door to find Benet dead from a self-inflicted.38 caliber gunshot wound to the head.
