You have 100% control over yourself, and your life. It is up to you to stop giving your power away, and to decide what you want to be, do, or have. . . and go after it.
If you want to know what you are attracting, look around you!,You are perfect, right now, as you are. You are perfect, but incomplete. You are exactly who you had to be, to create the life you have right now, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you or your life. But, if you want to be, do, or have, something different, you will need to change. .
